I'm sorry but I just can't read the other topic right now (not sure if I ever will be able to) but wanted to give you an update. I had a missed miscarriage and went to hospital last Monday for a D+C operation. It was meant to be very routine and take 20 minutes but ended up taking 1:40 and was seriously life threatening. They also did a laparoscopy operation. I lost 1/3 of my blood, woke to a 35.1 degree temperature and had to have a blood transfusion. I stayed in hospital for 3 days. I am off work for two weeks and it may be up to three months before I have full energy back. Regan hid my laptop from me for a few days because even typing made me out of breath. I'm getting there but a bit of a hormonal mess and find it all so surreal still. If I sent you a txt from hospital and you replied (I was a bit out of it), thank you. Everyone has been so supportive and I am thankful to anyone who has ever given blood. When you need it, you really really need it.

oh hell , I've just read this too admin and so sorry !! hope you're recovering OK
Only just read this - and I'm so, so sorry!
Ev's probably right - though I guess it won't make you feel any better at the moment.
We visit here and have no real idea of what's going on behind the scenes! Seen TC on here each time I've been here, thinking everything was as usual! What a dreadful worry for you too! Good to know you're caring for Rachel - make sure she does rest and not worry about having to do anything!
Just know you'll be there for each other though - and you know we all care too!
Thanks heaps, I'm slowly getting stronger every day and my heart will mend in time. xox
Take care Rowlf.
I'm SO glad to hear that Rachel as it's taken me a few days to get over the shock of it all before writing to you on here - didn't know what to say or HOW to say it. I walked away from the computer for a while before I could read the rest of the horrifying story
Just know that, although I don't know you both from a bar of soap, my thoughts and love are with you at this time.
Warm regards to you both.
Susan
I was never in a life threatening situ though - please take care and big HUGS - with love Ev.
Big hugs to you guys
so sorry for your loss
Love me
Tragedy strikes the people who deserve it least.
I'm so sorry guys.
I got your hospital txt and decided "that has got to be the calmest 'I almost died' txt ever" was an inappropriate response. X|
That said, I still don't know what is an appropriate response, so um. ♥
This post totally motivated me to give blood when the blood drive comes round to our school, except that I think I'm too light. :|
I hope that you and Regan take things slowly and take care of yourselves!
Don't push yourselves too hard. I don't know what to say but i agree with rockboy - for a person as kind as you, it is really unfair.
I have no idea what to say really.
That is so crap and unfair.
I know I don't really know you but I think you're fantastic and I know you'll get through this.
I love you guys.
Admin take care precious <3 I'm lost for words